enero 28, 2010


"Be who you are and say what you feel... Because those that matter... don't mind... and those that mind... don't matter..."

Often we struggle with decisions in our lifes that can or can't change it, and that will or will not change it. We think twice to make it, and we usually wait for the "right time" to come, that will help us bear with our conflict and that will make things easier to do it.

Well, the "right time" never comes, and it is never right. So if you wait for it to come, you will never take the decision, and as a good friend once said, "the worst decision is the one you never make".

The truth is something my sister always says "It is what it is" and that is actually right haha. You just need to have enough courage to confront whatever is that you need to confront, to be yourself with no regrets, as long as you do it responsibly, honestly and respectfully.

Ironically, the hardest decision I have ever made, (in my 30 years of short life) has been the one decision that gave me the more serenity I have ever felt. The one decision that caused the more pain has been the one decision I have confronted with the more peace of mind in my life.

The worst is yet to come, and I pray to be granted…

“The serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

I can only tell you, that decision you are struggling to make, it will be hard, it will hurt somebody… but it will definitely not be the end of the world.